TLDR: A guide for having a family discipleship time on Genesis 16 based on the ACT Bible Study Method.
Act 3: God Promises Jesus
Scene 5: Ishmael Is Born
Genesis 16:1–16
Analyze the Passage
Step 1: Introduce the Passage
Genesis was written by Moses sometime between 1445–1405 BC to help the Israelites leaving Egypt understand their history with God. It’s one of the five books of the Law that Moses wrote, which we also call the Torah, or the Pentateuch, which means “five books.”
Today’s true story describes a lower point in Abram’s life. It’s one that continues to remind us that Abram wasn’t perfect and that going our own way rather than God’s way never works out. This story is in Act 3: God Promises Jesus.
Step 2: Read the Passage
Step 3: Summarize the Passage
Because Sarai and Abram still did not have any children, Sarai told him to try to have a child with her servant Hagar. Abram did as Sarai said. Hagar became pregnant and as soon as she did, she hated Sarai. So, Sarai treated Hagar harshly and Hagar ended up running away.
Then, the angel of the Lord found Hagar in the wilderness and told her to return to Sarai and Abram. The angel promised that Hagar would have a large family. She was to name her son Ishmael. He would be a wild man and not get along with others.
Hagar gave birth to a son and named him Hagar as she had been instructed. This happened when Abram was 86 years old.
Step 4: Interrogate the Passage
Questions you and your family ask might include:
- How long has it been since God promised Abram and Sarai children?
- Had God prevented Sarai from having children?
- Why did Hagar hate Sarai?
- Why did Sarai blame Abram?
- Should Abram have done more for Hagar?
- Who or what is the angel of the Lord?
- Why did the angel of the Lord want Hagar to return?
Step 5: Wonder about the Passage
Wonder statements you and your family make might include:
- I wonder how Hagar felt about all that happened.
- I wonder what Sarai meant when she said God should judge between her and Abram.
- I wonder how Abram felt about all that happened.
- I wonder how Hagar felt about being told to return.
- I wonder how Hagar felt about the angel’s message of how Ishmael would be hostile with everyone.
Connect the Passage to Christ
Step 6: Find the World in Front of Text
This story shows us several things that are wrong, that God wants to make better. Neither Abram nor Sarai live in faith. They both fail to trust God and wait patiently for him to make good on his promises. Instead, they take matters into their own hands. This leads to several strained and broken relationships. Sarai and Hagar begin to fight. Sarai and Abram don’t get along the best. Abram seems to do very little to care for Hagar and to prevent wrongs being done to her. Then, we read of how Hagar’s son, Ishmael would be hostile with everyone.
God did not intend for any of this. Rather, he wants us to live in faith and to go out of our way to care for others—to treat them with love, respect, and honor. He wants us to value our relationships and be welcoming and supportive. But if something goes wrong, he wants us to be quick to forgive and restore.
Step 7: Find the World of Jesus of the Text
No one shows us what forgiveness and hospitality can and should look like more than Jesus. He models what forgiveness—full and immediate—is to be like. It’s possible. It isn’t easy, but it is attainable. He experienced the greatest of wrongs done to him, but every moment of the way, his heart was fixed on forgiving others. That’s what God wants from us too. At the same time, Jesus shows us what it looks like to pursue friendships with others. While Sarai was running Hagar off, Hagar was running off, and Abram was standing by aimlessly, Jesus shows what it’s like to pursue friendships and peace with others. He didn’t run people off. He didn’t run off. He didn’t stand off. He pursued people to know them and be with them. That’s our calling too.
Translate It to Your Context
Step 8: Connect the World of Jesus of the Text to Your World
Who do you need to forgive? Who has wronged you in a big way or a small way that you can truly forgive? How can you let that person know they are forgiven? Who might you ask to forgive you for something you’ve done wrong?
How can you show someone hospitality this week? How can you treat someone with friendship, love, and kindness? Think about people who you know of or barely know, especially anyone who seems like he or she might need a friend. What will you do to be a friend to them?
NEXT: Act 3: God Promises Jesus; Scene 6: Isaac Is Promised (Genesis 17:1–27)
Learn more about this family discipleship method here.